关于美好,以及离别

《请以你的名字呼唤我》

这部同性恋题材的电影,通过一个又一个细之又细的细节,向我们描绘了Oliver和Elio之间的爱情故事,虽然整部电影看似波澜不惊,然而其中有太多的细节都融入了这种平缓又真实的情节中,让人可以反复玩味感受。虽然是一部同性恋题材的电影,但其中所要表达的爱情故事,其实是适用于所有类型的爱情的。

Elio和Oliver的爱情故事很美好,正如我们生活中所拥有的一件又一件美好的事物一样,然而再美好的事物,也终究会有凋零离开的那一天。我们不知道什么时候,就会突然和喜爱的物品告别,突然和所爱的人告别,突然和这个世界告别。是的,我们终究要和我们生命中的每一样美好说再见,或早或晚,这是无法回避的事情。在那一天到来时,谁也不会做好了完全的准备,我们也将因此难过,甚至陷入到各种症候群中,这就是生活,“在你最想不到的时候,命运会以最狡猾的方式找到我们的软肋”。

这种失去会让你悲伤,怀疑,逐渐麻木并自我保护,“为了让我们更快愈合,我们从自己身上剥去了太多东西,以致于不到30岁就一无所有。每开始一段新的感情,能给予对方的就越少。但为了让自己没有感觉而不去感觉,这是多么浪费”。

我们明明可以感受到更多的东西,可以创造更好的生活,可以拥有更好的未来,可以看到更多的可能性,仅仅因为世界的运转规律,甚至仅仅是因为世界的现状而放弃这些本应属于我们的更多的美好,这种选择不会带给我们更多的幸福。

“怎么过这一生是你的事情,只是要记住,我们的心和身体只被给予这一次。而在你知道前,你的心会疲惫,而你的身体,总有一天没人会愿意多看一眼,更别说贴近它。现在你会感到悲伤和痛苦,别让它消失,更别忘了那些有过的快乐”。历史都是中性的,痛苦和快乐也都是一个硬币的正反面,这些硬币将会成为我们的“财富”的基石,而我们自身也会随着“财富”的增加,变成被别人拥有的美好。我想,那一天的我们,即使是告别,心情也一定是不一样的。

最后想补充一个点,Elio的父亲和Elio说,他自己年轻时也有过类似的“友谊”,但是没有像Elio一样,关于这一点,Elio的母亲是不知道的。但是,在我看来,Elio的母亲一定是知道这一点的,也因此,Elio的母亲才会支持儿子的恋情,也是想让Elio的父亲得到一定程度的满足和补偿吧。

另,本周其他剧集更新为:《相棒》16季17集,《Unnatural》第7集以及《BG~贴身保镖》第6集,另外《钢之炼金术师》真人版也可以下载了,虽然主角和原著的人物性格相去甚远,但总体来说比起前段时间真人化的《银魂》电影,还是要好那么一点点。

再另,背景音乐是《Unnatural》的主题曲,米津玄师的《Lemon》,歌词和今天的文章主题比较贴合(附歌词),就拿来直接用了。他的其他作品我也推荐的,包括之前推荐的《3月的狮子》也用过他的其他歌曲作为ED。最后,愿我们都可以将苦柠檬的香气,变成好喝的柠檬汁。

夢ならばどれほどよかったでしょう
如果是梦那该多么美好啊

未だにあなたのことを夢にみる
还可以在梦里看到你

忘れた物を取りに帰るように
像是为了拿忘记的东西而返回一样

古びた思い出の埃を払う
打扫尘封的记忆

戻らない幸せがあることを
世间有回不来的幸福这件事

最後にあなたが教えてくれた
是你最后教会我的

言えずに隠してた昏い過去も
被隐藏的没有消失的黑暗过去

あなたがいなきゃ永遠に昏いまま
依旧是黑暗之中

きっともうこれ以上 傷つくことなど
比这更伤人的事情

ありはしないとわかっている
我知道不可能存在

あの日の悲しみさえ
那一天的悲伤也好

あの日の苦しみさえ
那一天的痛苦也好

そのすべてを愛してた あなたとともに
我深爱着和你在一起的点点滴滴

胸に残り離れない
残留在心中久久不离

苦いレモンの匂い
苦柠檬的香气

雨が降り止むまでは帰れない
雨停为止都无法回去

今でもあなたはわたしの光
你依然是我的光

暗闇であなたの背をなぞった
黑暗中追寻着你的背影

その輪郭を鮮明に覚えている
那轮廓记忆犹新

受け止めきれないものと出会うたび
笨拙的追求的时候

溢れてやまないのは涙だけ
只能不停流眼泪而已

何をしていたの
你在做什么呢

何を見ていたの
你在看着什么呢

わたしの知らない横顔で
用我一脸疑惑的侧脸

どこかであなたが今
你现在在哪

わたしと同じ様な
是和我一样的

涙にくれ 淋しさの中にいるなら
以泪洗面寂寞生活的话

わたしのことなどどうか 忘れてください
请把我的一切全部忘掉吧

そんなことを心から願うほどに
就像你在由衷地祈祷的那样

今でもあなたはわたしの光
你现在依然是我的光

自分が思うより 恋をしていたあなたに
我比我自己想的更想与你相恋

あれから思うように 息ができない
从那以后无法随心所欲地呼吸

あんなに側にいたのにまるで嘘みたい
就像我在旁边对我说谎一样

とても忘れられないそれだけが確か
但有一点敢确定的是我忘不了你

あの日の悲しみさえ
那一天的悲伤也好

あの日の苦しみさえ
那一天的痛苦也好

その全てを愛してたあなたと共に
我深爱着和你在一起的点点滴滴

胸に残り離れない
残留在心中久久不离

苦いレモンの匂い
苦柠檬的香气

雨が降り止むまでは帰れない
雨停为止都无法回去

切り分けた果実の片方の様に
如同切开的果实的一面那样

今でもあなたはわたしの光
至今为止你依然是我的光

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